Losing your love one was painful to accept. But we have to accept it and move on. We cannot always think of them and feel lonely about it. I remember when my great grandmother died, we are all sad because she is very close to each one of us. All of her grandchild always visits her every summer and every December. That’s why we missed her when she passed away. She died because of her health problems.
At that time all of her children always spend time to talk about the probate process which they want to finish before that year ends. They talked about the things that they need to process. My father said that when losing someone you still have to do things even it’s sad about the death but still there are things you have to settle.
The process didn’t take so much time because there is someone to settle it. Also my grandmother left her papers with someone she trusted when she was still alive. Until now it is sad to remember her death but the things she left was not a big deal because it was done properly.